I left my first wife with three children, there was no love left when I move out. My Ex then married a nice guy and he was a great father to my children, I moved on and I am now very happy as well. My children were brought up in a happy loving environment, if I had stayed that would not have been the case. I have a great relationship with my children, it was a bit tough on them at the time but they settled into the situation well and now fully understand why I left the home. No regrets.