Dear pregnant-s , you have so much to consider, if you keep the baby, it will be hard and probably rewarding, but you must realise that nights out and discoing etc will be few and far between, hopefully you will one day find a man love you both . If you have an abortion, yes very a sad time, and you will always wonder "what if" but you will be able to go on with a normal life (I don't mean to upset other single parents it's the only way I can explain myself) ie colege, parties, travelling working and going out. Then there's adoption, an even more sad process, yes you'll be free to do everthing you want , but everytime you see a child of the right age you'll wonder "is that mine", there again when the child is 18yr they can get in touch, and maybe your husband and other children won't know about him/her, which then makes it awkward all round. It is your choice and has to be your choice so that you cannot blame anyone else later on for the wrong decision, think about what you can offer your baby (love is the greatest gift of all) but also you have to be able to provide it with all the things necessary for a good stable life. I wish you all the luck in the world it's going to be very hard whichever road you take. Take care xx