Very true, nat ~ once the bubba arrives anyone who has a wish for one or the other usually changes their minds!
Mind you, when I had my first baby (a 91/2 lb whopper) she went into special care, and I was on a ward with a woman who had had a boy..and had desperately wanted a girl. She wouldn't even look at her baby, let alone touch him or feed him. I am sure (well I hope) that this changed later on, but all I could think about was that my baby was far away from me and I couldn't touch her or look at her. At that point I wouldn't have cared if she was a girl, boy or alien!
I actually went over to her baby and picked him up when he was crying and she didn't gve a toss :o(
On that note I will go and have another cry...lol.