I lost my Mum just over a year ago, not sure I am over it yet. I lost my Dad six years ago, I still miss him and feel sad. I am not sure there is a time when it totally stops hurting, but it does lesson a bit. I often think of things I want to say to them, and I do have teary moments. I hope that you can manage your life without too much sorrow, but don't worry if you have sad moments. Just hold on to any prescious memories you have, they will always be in your heart.