in answer to your questions , yes i have done in the past didn't get a restraining order though but he did tell me he didn't do it and she had done it herself :( , i was silly and believed him for 11 and a half years till he did the same to me :( , then i noticed the pattern and got to hell away , but that was all them years wasted on a guy that was a prick ,2 good things came out the relationship my daughter and son :) , but now i am a single mum!!