I think that is exactly the problem, people will at the moment always question a muslim person's motives and thoughts, which is an intolerable situaiton.
I have two broad experiences regarding Islam, the first is that my (Jewish) wife was walking along the road by finsbury Park Mosque and the police were there for some reason and were watching as people walked by. they stopped my wife and daughter as my wife had a small unobtrusive star of david around her neck and asked her to go another way as there were people outiside the mosque. My wife declined and said no they had let everyone else through so they would jolly well let her through. They said they thought her presence ( walking past on the way elsewhere) might ' imflame the situaiton'. she saild ' Rollax I don't care i am entitled to walk anywhere I please, just as these guys are entitled to walk past any synangogue. This argument with the police went on for a few moments and they finally let her through, she had unpleasant things yelled at her etc etc etc- but all pretty much a non event.
The second is that our closest friends are Muslim, I was born a Catholic, my wife was born a Jew and they are both born Muslims, yet we have maintained our respectful relationship for many many years and not many people are as dear to me as they are, as they are truly wonderful, honest decent people.
Moral of the story is I think, all of us jujst need to keep our heads, not panic that the sky is falling or we'll end up destroying what is essentially the tolerant and beautiful community that we have in Britain.