As you are allowed to have your views so am I ...
In every organisation there is good and bad ... period !
My father died 2 weeks before my 3rd birthday ... a serving police officer and also a freemason.
My mum was supported unconditionally by the fellow lodge members & their wives, financially, emotionally and in any way they could at the time.
They in turn paid for ALL my education from the age of 11 to 18 ... thousands of pounds worth ... to provide the sort of education my parents wanted to give me but were unable to as a result of my fathers death.
They did this with no ulterior motive, just because they could help the family of a lodge member that they respected & valued highly ... they never looked for any repayment ...
Over the last 30+ years I have been in regular contact with many of the now elderly member as well as the younger ones and their beliefs still remain the same ... help those that you can when you can ... they may well be members & their families in the 1st instance ... but this is only the same as an MP helping an MP, a nurse helping another nurse ... or an internet user helping another user ?? ... its just that they are in a position to do even more ...
So how about you ask the question " Has anyone been helped or assisted by this organisation" ...
I bet there are more people that have been helped than hindered ...
And no ... I am not a freemason ... !