I have a daily routine that my blokey mates would probably scoff at, and I have done the spa thing once or twice. I care about my appearance, and the wife seems to appreciate that aspect of my life.
She is partial to me being groomed and in my finest suits, but goes rampantly animalistic when I get a bit mucky working on the car or get a bit sweaty doing some DIY or exercise. I guess she likes both worlds really.
I can confirm that as of last night, I am not all that gay.